Syphilis
Syphilis: Don’t stall, Make the Call!
Asking others about their recent STI tests may help avoid any inconveniences like having to get treatment or abstain from sex. It also shows that you’re invested in your own and your partner’s mutual sexual health. Here are some tips while having this conversation.
- Ask about recent STI tests before things get hot and heavy! It might kill the mood to ask in the middle of sex, so ask before the date either over text or over the phone.
- Avoid asking partner’s if they’re “clean” or “DDF” (disease and drug free). This type of language is stigmatizing.
- Consider asking folk how many partners they’ve had since they were last tested. Some people may have had multiple partners since their last test.
- Asking if someone’s on PrEP or if they are Undetectable can be a great way to initiate a conversation about recent STI tests.
Getting tested, knowing your STI status and telling your partners of positive tests are essential strategies to support not only your own sexual health but the sexual health of the community in which we live and play.
It is recommended to inform your partners of a positive test within the past three months for primary stage syphilis; within six months for secondary stage; and within one year for early latent stage. If your syphilis has advanced further, any and all long-term partners should be notified.
We also recognize that doing the right thing and talking to your partner(s) can be, well, awkward – so we recommend using TellYourPartner.org. This website allows you to enter the phone numbers of your partners, and it will contact them without you having to directly contact anyone. The text sent by TellYourPartner tells the person they may have been exposed to an STI and recommends they get tested. All of this is done completely anonymously and instantly. Visit TellYourPartner.org to learn more or to use the service for free.
If you’ve been notified that you have recently been in contact with someone who has syphilis, don’t freak out. Receiving a notification isn’t a guarantee that you’ve acquired an sexually transmitted infection (STI).
- Remember that STIs happen! Anyone who is sexually active can be exposed to them at some point.
- Remember that syphilis is entirely curable. With testing and early treatment, syphilis will not cause any long-term effects.
- Book an appointment with a healthcare provider or visit a sexual health clinic as soon as you can. If you have a confirmed exposure, you will likely be given antibiotics as a precautionary measure.
- Avoid sexual contact with others until you have completed the course of antibiotic treatment as set by your doctor (usually 7-14 days).
- Contact us at onlineoutreach@actoronto.org or 416-340-2437 if you need help with booking an appointment at a clinic or need more information about syphilis.
Check out the link below for a list of sexual health clinics in Toronto where you can get tested and treated:
Toronto Sexual Health Clinics
ACT is committed to the health and well-being of all cis and trans gay, bi, and queer (GBQ) men, regardless of their HIV status. We have a range of Group Programs for gay men that address issues related to depression, anxiety, substance use and body image, as well as programs for younger GBQ men that help them build resilience and community. We offer mental health counselling at ACT offices and in the community. Our staff are also trained to develop and deliver sexual health Outreach and Community Education programs.
Each year, ACT has produces resources that address issues pertaining to gay men’s health. Here’s what we have produced lately:
- CATIE: Syphilis
- CDC Syphilis Factsheet
- Hep C and Sex for Gay Bi and Queer Guys
- Travelling with Prescribed Medication
- My Sex Life: info for young poz people
- BDSM: safer kinky sex
- Staying Off Crystal
One of ACT’s national partners has made these resources and others available to order. Find them at CATIE.ca
* We have chosen to use the term “gay” recognizing that this term may not resonate with all gay/bi/queer/2 Spirit men (including queer trans men). Our objective is simplicity of language and we recognize that our services and service networks must be equally skilled at being relevant and accessible to all men who have sex with men, regardless of how they understand their sexuality in relation to their core identity.